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A Very Frugal Wedding: Setting a Budget

Last updated on July 24, 2018 By Millennial Boss 7 Comments

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My fiancé and I got engaged in September of last year.

Less than an hour after getting engaged, we started calling friends and family to let them know and to share in our excitement.

That is when the questions started coming in.

When are you getting married? Where are you getting married?

Hold on, people!! We’ve been engaged less than an hour. How do we know at this point?

 

 1.  Keep Your Focus On You Two

 

Planning A Wedding is Stressful

My fiancé and I grew up in two different parts of the country and now we live in an entirely different part of the country. We could have the wedding in one of three locations.

At first, we wanted to have the wedding where we live now. The mountain backdrop would be beautiful. We could make a weekend out of it and show off the place we love to our family and friends. It would be easy to plan and likely less expensive than our other options.

We started to look at wedding venues in the area and narrowed down the choices to two venues in our favorite mountain town.

The price was right too! The venues put together proposals for our 70-person wedding and all-in, we believe we would be under $5,000.

I shared the great news with my Mom one Sunday. She flipped out. Just a 70-person wedding!!! At high-altitude!!! Not on the East Coast!!

It was not the wedding my parents pictured for me and they did not hide their disappointment.

 

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Who wouldn’t want to get married with this backdrop?

 

I got super stressed out. Part of me just wanted to do what my fiancé and I wanted but the other part of me wanted to do what was right by our families.

Weddings, in my opinion, are an event that builds community. I appreciate that I grew up with a strong network of extended family and friends. I didn’t want to jeopardize that community in any way.

That night, I started having stomach pains but I ignored it. The next day, I had an emergency appendectomy.

I joke with my friends that the stress of the wedding caused me to lose an organ.

After that ordeal, I decided to focus on the two of us.

Our wedding is about our love and I needed to not let the opinion of families and friends distract me from that.

 

 2.  Set a Firm Budget and Stick to It

 

A Fresh Start to Wedding Planning

At the beginning of this year and after a three-month hiatus, I was ready to start thinking about the wedding again.

We had a change of heart and decided to have the wedding on the East Coast near family. My fiancé and I want to move there eventually and we felt it was the right thing to do.

His family surprisingly preferred the wedding to be on the East Coast versus where we live now too, since it would be within driving distance for them.

The location settled, we decided to tour venues next time we visited my family in early February.

Planning a frugal wedding in this part of the country is challenging. The average wedding on the East Coast costs between $24,000 to $40,000.

Say what?!! In what world does spending that much money on one night make sense?

 

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This won’t be us!!

 

There is no way that I am spending more than $10,000 on this wedding. We decided on a budget and we are sticking to it.

So I’ve started emailing venues and laying out our budget to them right from the beginning. Most venues have been willing to work within the budget but they unfortunately cannot provide a plated dinner for that price.

Most venues offered a menu of drinks and appetizers but I can’t justify spending $10,000 on appetizers.

If we want to have a full dinner, we’ll have to get a little bit creative with our search.

I’m optimistic that it’s possible. It will just take a little extra effort.

 

 

Other posts in the Frugal Wedding Series:

Choosing an Off Season Wedding

Saving on Catering and Photography

Saving on Wedding Invitations

Minimizing Costs for Your Bridesmaids and Guests

Saving on an Officiant

How to Do Your Own Wedding Flowers and Bouquets

Our $15,000 Game of Thrones Winter Wedding

Readers, what was your wedding budget? Did your family and friends understand?

 

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  1. Amy says

    March 10, 2016 at 9:56 pm

    We started planning a wedding. We were going to do it outside with a catered reception because one of my sister’s kept insisting we needed to have a “real” wedding. One day I realized I didn’t want to plan any of that so I called my Mom & my husband’s Mom to ask if they’d be available to come down in 2 weeks on Leap Day for our wedding. They said yes so we called or emailed everyone else and told them if they could come we’d love to have them if not we understood that it was short notice.

    Altogether it was $900 for everything including the new suit for my husband, new suit for my then 7 year old son and 2 dresses I had to have. I totally destroyed one while altering it to fit me. After the ceremony we took our 38 guests out to dinner at a local Chinese place in the banquet room. We had a sheet cake from WalMart and mini cheesecakes that I’d made. After the dinner we went to shoot some pool and then to the gay bar for a drag show.

    Our wedding was laid back and inexpensive just like us. Honestly, I think everyone in my family was a surprised when I invited them to an actual wedding. I’d always told my family if I ever decided to get married, which wasn’t likely, it’d be at a drive through wedding chapel with two Elvis impersonators as my witnesses.

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    • MB says

      March 11, 2016 at 1:58 am

      Sounds like your day was perfect for you and your husband! I’m hoping to plan something low-key too that we both look back fondly on. Those Mini cheesecakes sound amazing! 🙂

      Reply
  2. Martin says

    June 26, 2016 at 3:49 pm

    Hey MB!

    Where do you guys currently live?

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    • Julie says

      June 26, 2016 at 7:08 pm

      Bay Area as of recently!

      Reply
  3. DivHut says

    October 14, 2016 at 7:24 am

    Congrats on the crazy 2016. Getting married is awesome. Enjoy every moment. It’s possible to stick to any budget you create. It’s all about committing to it and not getting swayed at all. Things can quickly snowball as I’m sure you are aware. Being frugal you could get a used wedding dress online. There are so many different sites out there that let you buy used wedding dresses. My wife got hers from oncewed but there are others. https://www.preownedweddingdresses.com http://yesbride.com http://www.oncewed.com/used-wedding-dresses/ https://www.bravobride.com/ and more. Just my 2 cents. Thanks for sharing.

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    • Julie says

      October 14, 2016 at 2:14 pm

      Great tips! I already bought my dress but could have totally went the used route. Thanks for sharing!

      Reply
  4. Nemanja says

    December 22, 2016 at 12:40 pm

    Hardest thing for me is planning budget, since there are to many people you need to invite lol.

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