Have you ever wanted to go blonde?
Last fall I got the itch to go blonde.
I was taking concrete steps towards achieving my dream lifestyle which felt amazing. I also was feeling great at work, wasn’t afraid to take professional risks anymore, and was generally feeling #likeaboss.
I wanted a major change to celebrate the adventure and the freedom I was feeling at this point in my life. Going blonde was it for me.
Why I Went Blonde and got balayage
It made no sense for me to start spending more money on my hair.
Nonetheless, I did it.
It was a sign to myself that I’m really doing this whole achieving my dreams thing. It gave me momentum.
I started out with balayage and I went super blonde with the balayage.
You’ll see by the end of the post that I found it cheaper and easier to grow out a more balayage look.
Brunette to Blonde Before and After
Nothing changed when I dyed my hair blonde. I’m engaged so I was not doing it for any extra attention, although I did notice some extra looks from strangers.
My coworkers and friends did a double-take at first too.
How much did it cost to dye my hair blonde with balayage?
The greatest change in going from brunette to blonde was my bank account.
I used to get away with going to the hairdresser every 3 months or so. Sometimes I would stretch it out to 6 months between appointments when I didn’t have an event such as a wedding to go to.
I used to spend an average of $60 per cut, 4 times a year. So, $240 on hair for the year.
The upkeep of blonde hair is not so easy.
The first time I ever dyed my hair it was just under $200 (in Colorado).
And that was with a brown balayage look and not full out blonde dye.
How many times did it take to dye my hair blonde?
It took two sessions with a hairdresser to get it to look the way I wanted and to not be orange.
Brunette balayage requires that mix of blonde and brown look and brown hair turns orange when the bleach is not left on long enough.
I’m really glad I went with a professional!
How much does it cost to maintain balayage brown hair?
Now, I’m getting my hair colored every other month at $200 a pop or $1200 for the year. That’s an increase of $960 per year just to be blonde!
I recently moved to San Francisco and the costs are now $1300 per year!
I also buy special products now that I never bought before! It’s worth it to me though because I want to keep my blonde hair looking great.
How much has it cost me to have dyed blonde hair?
As you can see from the graph, my spending on hair went way up once I went blonde. It was worth it though!
Ways to Cut the Cost of Going Blonde
At first I went for a more “bronde” approach because it required less maintenance and was healthier for my hair.
It was that half brown/ half blonde look where you start out with dark roots so it doesn’t look as bad when it grows out.
Even though the rooty ombre look is popular right now, I didn’t like it on me.
I also didn’t like how it gave my hair an orange tint in some light such as in the picture below. I decided to take it up a notch and go full blonde.
I considered coloring my hair myself but I don’t think I have the talent or the skills to go full DIY. I’m saving that experiment for another day.
More pics on my Instagram: @millennialboss
How I Went Blonde & Minimized Hair Damage
I talked to my colorist about doing the roots in a way so that I could have extra time between appointments.
She was on the same page as me in terms of keeping the hair healthy.
She actually didn’t use Olaplex and said I didn’t need it, which surprised me because I had read so much stuff about it online.
There was one time though where my hair turned really orange and I had to come back to the salon that day and get it processed again.
That was scary but my colorist fixed it immediately.
How my hair felt after going blonde
I noticed that once I went blonde, my hair was harder to brush out after a shower.
There were legit some days where I couldn’t even get my brush through my hair.
I bought a detangler spray (haven’t used one of those since I was little) and higher quality shampoos.
I also made sure to liberally apply conditioner and try not to blow my hair dry fully.
I would let it dry 90% of the way naturally and finish off the hair with a the hairdryer.
How to Keep Blonde Hair Color Bright
The full blonde color looked much nicer on me. I kept the color bright blonde by using J Beverly Hills Blonde Neutralizing Shampoo. This shampoo was recommended by my hair stylist and works.
If you’re thinking about going blonde or have highlights, I highly recommend you buy this shampoo.
At first the shampoo felt a little different because it doesn’t lather as much as other shampoos (and it’s purple!) but it kept my blonde looking bright and beautiful which is what I wanted.
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Blonde Balayage is low maintenance and cheaper
Six months in to being full blonde I switched to a blonde balayage look. I changed how I felt about roots and my bank account thanked me.
My hair stylist did a good job of blending it all in and it was MUCH EASIER TO MAINTAIN.
I would go to the salon every three months or so.
It was much healthier for my hair.
The balayage look isn’t for everyone but it worked for me.
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From Blonde to Brunette Transformation
This Fall I decided to be reasonable and dye my hair back to its natural color and let it grow out.
I went from balayage brown hair back to dark
The main reasons I went back to a darker color were that:
- I didn’t want to keep going back to the hairdresser
- Cost
- I started getting freaked out about the chemicals in hair dye
My hair has since lightened up since I dyed it dark and it now has a cool balayage / ombre look to it.
I’m looking forward to growing it out and being light at the ends again.
My colorist used a semi-permanent dye in case I wanted to go blonde again next summer.
What does grown out balayage look like?
Update 1 Year Later: The balayage has grown out and now it does look a bit orange at the ends in some light (like the picture above).
I’ve been cutting out some of the pieces with long layers and it looks much better. I’m still toying with whether to dye it dark or blonde again. Thinking on it.
Balayage on dark brown hair was cheaper
The balayage on dark brown look was cheaper, easy to grow out and looked natural until I cut it all out.
I miss this look sometimes and it was a super fun hairstyle for summer but it was expensive!
How Much Will It Cost You to Go Blonde?
If you’re wondering how much it will cost you to go blonde, the truthful answer is that it depends on several factors including:
The length of your hair: The longer your hair, naturally the more it will cost to go blonde.
The volume of your hair: The more voluminous your hair, the more it will cost.
Your starting hair color: If you’re already a dirty blonde or at least some shade of blonde, it will likely cost less to go fully blonde. Conversely, if you have dark brunette or even black hair, it will obviously cost more to make the transformation to blonde. Take a look at this chart that shows all of the possible shades of hair colors. More than likely, the further away that your natural hair color is to blonde on this chart, the more it will cost to make the transition to blonde.
The health of your hair: The healthier your hair, the less expensive it will be to go blonde because you won’t have to worry about using additional products to minimize damage.
Whether you choose to do it yourself or go to a salon: If you choose to go to a salon, you can’t feel more assured that you will get the end result that you want, but it will also likely cost more money than if you chose to use a DIY approach. With that said, the amount it will cost will vary from one salon to the next a well.
How much you maintain your hair: Once you’ve made the transformation to blonde hair, you may also incur ongoing costs depending on how much you choose to maintain it. Just refer to my bar chart from earlier that shows my monthly hair costs as evidence that it costs money to maintain a blonde color.
Depending on all of these factors, it may cost you more or less. It’s not fair to say that it will cost exactly $150 or exactly $250 to make the transformation to blonde. Depending on the factors listed above, it may actually end up being more or less than this amount. Keep this in mind when you’re planning to make the transition to blonde hair.
Keep in mind that before you make the decision to switch from your current shade of hair to blonde that it’s a good idea to have an in-person consultation with a professional colorist who can let you know if it’s even feasible for your hair to become blonde. A 30-minute consultation can save you both time and money if it turns out that it’s not possible for you to make the transition to blonde.
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I’ve never dyed my hair because I don’t want the ongoing cost of upkeep. I do have natural highlights though so that helps. But I think it if gives you confidence and motivation, that is worth a lot!
Good decision! I can always go back to my natural hair color and then let it grow out but for now this “new me” thing is motivating me. 🙂
My husband used to dye mine for me!
You have a talented man! I’m not brave enough for that 🙂
Interesting analogy re: your tattooed friend. I’d like to think your friend’s grandparents would have supported her decision/recognized the intent behind it regardless of their own personal beliefs.
As for your decision to dye your hair, motivation comes from mysterious places! If spending $1200 a year helps you to save in other ways, I say go for it!
Haha yup it seems like a strange form of motivation but I’m not the first to reinvent my look with a big life change!
Blonde hair is definitely more difficult to upkeep. It is for that very reason that I stopped dyeing my hair blonde during high school and switched to brown instead. (My natural hair color is a dark blondeish/light brown color).
Very smart. I’m toying with that thought myself. I might dye it back dark before my wedding. It’s so fun though!
I am blonde…and I feel your pain, it’s annoying having to pay because so many of my friends dye their own hair dark for about £5. But it’s hard to DIY blonde!
What I do once I have got the colour I want, is to just have a t section (the roots) done because it’s cheaper and better for the hair. I’ll only get a full head once it’s showing underneath which takes months – probably about a year actually.
Also I have a mobile hairdresser, which always works out cheaper as they don’t have the salon overheads.
I went darker once and it was so much easier (and way cheaper). I used a box dye and my friend did it for me. It looked great! I’m a little more afraid of doing blonde myself though!
I love this article!!! I’m blonde naturally but roots get greasy fast – but at least I can buy cheap baby powder for dry shampoo instead of the expensive spray stuff! I do touch up my roots sometimes too – from my box dye that’s semi-permanent, so I can’t mess it up TOO bad – and only $5 every 6 weeks.
But I really miss getting my nails done with gel (I have a bad habit of biting them) and thinking of including a line item in my budget for it, financial sensibilities be damned. It gives me that extra oomph.
Women have it a lot tougher and are basically REQUIRED to spend money on things men may consider “unnecessary”. Sorry, but we all know that getting promoted in the workplace for women, a lot of the time, comes down to look – polished nails, hair in place, power outfits. That’s just a fact of being a woman, and we shouldn’t apologize for anything that gives us confidence – because that’s how we will succeed in the end!
I feel great when I get my nails done too! I am actually considering bringing that back into the budget as well. I haven’t pulled the trigger though because it’s a regular expense if I want to keep them looking nice.
Well, being a guy, guys generally don’t touch their hair colour anyway. My wife used to dye hers, but I said many times that I love her natural colour (dark brunette).
I’m glad you celebrated in a fun way that you can enjoy 24/7 🙂
There isn’t anything that we’re currently spending that we shouldn’t, we are running a pretty tight ship right now trying to save for IVF.
Tristan
Yup! It’s a constant reminder whenever I look in the mirror. Or more often I see my reflection and I’m like WHO IS THAT?! Still not used to it! Very true about guys. I convinced my fiancé to grow his hair a bit longer and start “styling it” and now I see him getting into hair a bit more. It’s very funny because he used to not care about it at all when he had the typical guy’s short cut.
I bet you’d be surprised at your own skills to keep it blonde! I had the same problem- was paying ridiculous amounts of money to be blonde. YouTube had tons of great tutorials and now I do it myself for about $20 using professional products.
Oh and I am NOT a good DIYer by any means so if I can do it anyone can haha
Good to know! Maybe I’ll work up the courage by the end of the summer!
I had blonde highlights throughout high school and that was super expensive and now that I’m out on my own and paying for everything I’m back to a natural hair color and even cut my hair myself! I just bought a pair of hair cutting scissors at Target for $10 several months ago and watched a Youtube video and I save so much money by doing it myself. 😀
Look at you! Impressive! I may get there eventually but right now I can barely put on liquid eyeliner without making a mistake!
I was blonde AND had had lavender hair for a very short amount of time. Going from natural black to lavender was such a crazy process, and it didn’t last long unless I got it re-colored very often. Not only that, my hair was damaged for a year after that, and still is!
Isn’t it crazy how damaged the hair gets? I have ombre now and the top half is my natural color and is strong, whereas the very bottom is bleached blonde and is brittle.